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  • Writer: Erik Frederickson - Life Coach and Recovery Coach
    Erik Frederickson - Life Coach and Recovery Coach
  • Jan 21
  • 4 min read

Sober coach helping client overcome addiction

When dealing with addiction, it's common to overlook the strong connection between sober coaching and mental health. Substance abuse impacts not only your body but also significantly affects your mind, emotions, and overall well-being. As a sober coach, I've witnessed how overcoming addiction leads to remarkable mental clarity, emotional balance, and a revitalized sense of purpose. If you aim to regain control of your life, focusing on recovery goes beyond merely giving up substances—it's about establishing a foundation for lasting mental wellness.


Benefits of Working with a Sober Coach

  • Personalized Recovery Plans: Tailored strategies to meet individual needs.

  • Emotional Support: Guidance through the challenges of sobriety.

  • Accountability: Regular check-ins to keep you on track.

  • Life Skills Development: Tools for managing stress and triggers.

  • Holistic Approaches: Focus on both mental and physical health.


Why Choose a Sober Coach?

  • Expertise in Addiction Recovery: Knowledgeable about the recovery process.

  • Empathetic Guidance: Understanding of the struggles faced during recovery.

  • Long-Term Success: Strategies designed for sustainable sobriety.

  • Supportive Environment: Safe space to share experiences and challenges.


Embrace the journey towards sobriety with the help of a dedicated sober coach. Together, we can build a future filled with hope, resilience, and lasting mental health.


Schedule a FREE 20-minute consultation now.


How Addiction Impacts Mental Health

Substance abuse alters brain chemistry, leading to increased anxiety, depression, and mood instability. Many people use drugs or alcohol as a way to escape emotional pain, stress, or trauma, but over time, this only worsens mental health struggles. Addiction can also lead to:

- Increased feelings of isolation and loneliness

- Difficulty managing emotions

- Poor decision-making and impulse control

- Low self-esteem and hopelessness


Without proper support, these issues can spiral, making recovery feel even more out of reach. However, when you commit to sobriety, you’re taking the first step toward healing your mind and rebuilding a healthier, more fulfilling life.


The Mental Health Benefits of Sobriety

Choosing sobriety isn’t just about avoiding substances—it’s about reclaiming your peace of mind and emotional strength. Here are some of the key mental health benefits of getting sober:


1. Reduced Anxiety and Depression

Many substances increase anxiety and depressive symptoms over time. Once you remove them, your brain can start to heal, leading to a more balanced mood and a greater sense of emotional stability.


2. Improved Mental Clarity

Addiction often leads to brain fog, making it difficult to think clearly, focus, or make rational decisions. Sobriety restores mental sharpness, allowing you to set meaningful goals and follow through on them.


3. Better Stress Management

Without substances as a coping mechanism, you’ll learn healthier ways to manage stress—whether through exercise, mindfulness, therapy, or personal growth strategies. Over time, this builds resilience and emotional strength.


4. Stronger Relationships

Addiction often damages relationships with family, friends, and colleagues. Sobriety gives you the opportunity to rebuild trust, communicate more effectively, and form deeper, more authentic connections.


5. Increased Self-Worth

Breaking free from addiction empowers you to regain control of your life. As you experience personal growth and achieve new milestones, your confidence and self-worth will naturally rise.

Understanding the Role of a Sober Coach

A sober coach is a trained professional who provides personalized support and guidance to individuals in recovery from addiction. Their primary goal is to help clients maintain sobriety and navigate the challenges that come with recovery.


Benefits of Hiring a Sober Coach

  • Personalized Support: A sober coach tailors their approach to meet your specific needs and circumstances.

  • Accountability: Regular check-ins with a sober coach can help keep you accountable for your recovery goals.

  • Practical Tools: Coaches provide strategies and tools to cope with triggers and cravings effectively.

  • Emotional Support: They offer a safe space to discuss feelings and challenges without judgment.

  • Life Skills: Sober coaches can help you develop essential life skills to navigate everyday situations without substance use.


How a Sober Coach Can Enhance Your Recovery Journey


Working with a sober coach can significantly enhance your recovery journey by providing continuous motivation and support. They can assist you in setting realistic goals, celebrating milestones, and overcoming setbacks. This partnership fosters a sense of community and belonging, which is crucial for sustained sobriety.


Choosing the Right Sober Coach


When selecting a sober coach, consider the following:

  • Qualifications: Look for certifications and training in addiction recovery.

  • Experience: Choose someone with a proven track record in helping clients achieve lasting sobriety.

  • Compatibility: Ensure that you feel comfortable and understood by your coach.

  • Methods: Inquire about their coaching techniques and how they align with your recovery goals.


Conclusion

Investing in a sober coach can be a transformative step in your recovery journey. With their guidance, support, and expertise, you can build a strong foundation for lasting sobriety. Don’t hesitate to reach out to a sober coach today to take charge of your recovery and embrace a healthier, happier life.


The path to sobriety isn’t always easy, but you don’t have to do it alone. A sober coach provides the guidance, support, and accountability you need to stay on track and create a life that truly fulfills you. Whether you’re struggling with addiction, in early recovery, or looking to strengthen your sobriety, working with a coach can help you navigate challenges, develop healthier habits, and maintain long-term success.


Are You Ready to Take Control of Your Life?

If you’re ready to break free from addiction and experience the mental health benefits of sobriety, I’m here to help. As a dedicated sober coach, I provide personalized strategies and one-on-one support to help you stay committed to your recovery journey. Don’t wait for the ‘perfect time’—your healing starts today.


📩 Reach out now for a free consultation and take the first step toward a healthier, happier life!


Contact us today

619-880-6935


Schedule a FREE 20-minute consultation now.

 
 
 
  • Writer: Erik Frederickson - Life Coach and Recovery Coach
    Erik Frederickson - Life Coach and Recovery Coach
  • Nov 8, 2023
  • 3 min read

In a world where addiction and substance abuse are running rampant, finding effective solutions to help individuals on their path to recovery has become of extreme importance. Sober coaching, a relatively new but highly effective approach, has gained traction and success for its ability to provide the necessary support, guidance, and accountability that individuals in recovery desperately need. In this blog, we will explore the reasons why sober coaching works and why it has become a valuable tool in the journey to sobriety.


1. Personalized Support

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Sober Coaching

One of the primary reasons why sober coaching works is its focus on providing personalized support and guidance. Every individual's journey through addiction and recovery is unique, and what works for one person may not work for another. At Recovering Reality we work closely with our clients to develop customized plans tailored to their specific needs and circumstances. By addressing the unique challenges and triggers that you are facing, we provide a level of support that is hard to achieve through a one-size-fits-all approach.


2. Continuous Accountability


Accountability is a fundamental aspect of recovery. At Recovering Reality we offer continuous accountability, ensuring that our clients stay on track and make progress in their journey toward healthy and sustainable recovery. This accountability extends beyond our one-on-one sessions. We stay in touch throughout the week, in between sessions, providing support when it's needed most. This constant presence can be a game-changer for someone struggling with addiction, as it lessens the likelihood of relapse and keeps our clients focused on their goals.


3. Building Healthy Habits


Recovery is not just about abstaining from substances; it's much more than that. Our coaching helps our clients build a new, healthy way of life. Sober coaching plays a pivotal role in helping individuals establish and maintain healthy habits, and our coaches assist our clients in setting goals related to physical health, mental well-being, faith, and relationships. We guide our clients in creating routines and structures that promote connection to God, sobriety, and overall well-being. By building these positive habits, our sober coaches help our clients replace old, destructive patterns with new, constructive ones.


4. Emotional Support

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Sober coaching

Addiction often goes hand in hand with emotional turmoil, past traumas, and mental health challenges. At Recovering Reality our sober coaches are well-equipped to offer emotional support to our clients. We help our clients process their emotions, deal with underlying issues, surrender to God, and provide a safe and non-judgmental space for open conversations. This emotional support is invaluable in helping our clients navigate the emotional ups and downs that can accompany recovery.


5. Relapse Prevention


Preventing relapse is a top priority in the recovery process, our coaches work diligently to identify potential triggers and warning signs that may lead to relapse. By addressing these factors early on, we help our clients develop coping strategies and techniques to avoid falling back into destructive behavior. With a strong emphasis on relapse prevention, sober coaching significantly reduces the risk of returning to substance use.


6. Real-Life Application

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sober coaching

Our sober coaches operate in the real world, outside the confines of a treatment facility. We provide clients with the tools and skills they need to navigate daily life while maintaining sobriety. Clients practice their newfound coping strategies, communication skills, and problem-solving abilities under the guidance of their coach. This real-life application has helped us guide hundreds and hundreds of clients into resilience, confidence, and long-lasting recovery.


Conclusion


At Recovering Reality, our sober coaching is a highly effective approach to addiction recovery for several reasons. It provides personalized support, continuous accountability, and emotional support, all while focusing on building healthy habits and preventing relapse. By addressing the individual needs and challenges of each client, Recovering Reality Sober Coaching offers a holistic approach to recovery that increases the likelihood of long-term success. If you or someone you know is on the path to recovery, we would love to see if we're a good fit for your journey.


 

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  • Writer: Erik Frederickson - Life Coach and Recovery Coach
    Erik Frederickson - Life Coach and Recovery Coach
  • Oct 11, 2021
  • 3 min read

Updated: Sep 6, 2022

I believe it's normal and healthy to expect good things.


Deep down I think most people expect good for themselves until the world throws some bad stuff their way. We should always be believing in good coming our way, but I think that hope for good can begin to drift when we experience enough bad events in our lives.

Is there a way to change this? My experience tells me, yes.

I feel it’s safe to say that most people coming out of addiction and into recovery have struggled with having a controlling mentality.


I certainly did. Because I experienced so much bad in my life, I thought the only way to bring good out of a situation was if I somehow controlled the outcome in my favor.

Addiction-driven mentalities don’t just warp the psyche (soul and spirit), but it also leaves a lingering residue in our thinking and actions. One of the joys of my recovery has been learning how to live in a space of expecting good things to happen as a result of my hard work but learning to lose the expectation of how I think these good things have to happen.

Expectation is a deceitful acquaintance that masquerades as a friend.

Imagine a friend whose goal is to continually trick you into thinking that things should always go the way you think they should go. And while this phony friend tricks you they ingrain an intensely counterproductive mode of operation into your psyche called the “victim mentality.”

This is what the fake friend called expectation does to us.

By the time someone has allowed expectation to sink its teeth into their mind, there is a good chance that the roots of entitlement have also sunk deep into the soil of their heart. This divisive stance then brings us a false sense of superiority and as a result the finger-pointing and accusing others of our problems is a byproduct, ultimately positioning oneself for isolation and unhealthy relationships.

So you may be asking, how then do we go about expecting good things?

I believe living in expectancy is the answer, and there is a vast difference between expectation and expectancy.

Expectancy is a quiet and humble confidence of knowing that if I do my part, God will do His part in bringing about my success. Expectancy is when you go into a situation expecting to gain from it one way or another, but not having to control how that happens.

Expectation, on the other hand, is fueled by pride. Expectation is saying that I know best, I know exactly how this should work out and if it doesn’t someone is to blame.

Expectancy is fueled by knowing that the best is coming my way, but when I try to manipulate how that comes about I shrink my world down to my size instead of the graceful and expansive world God has for me.

Expectancy is a healthy faith of knowing that good is my portion and I will put in my hard work in relationships, personal life, and career and I will do everything I can to celebrate others' success and help them achieve it in the process. I have experienced more good than I could have imagined as I grow in this mode of operation.


 


Check out this 2 min video for more clarity on this topic.


 

I have an expectancy that all the good God has planned for my life will become my reality.

But if I slip back into the controlling way of expectation I can quickly become blind to all the endless opportunities and possibilities where good could come into my life.

The freeing way of life found in expectancy drives me to receive more than I could ever ask, think, or imagine. I get to enter situations knowing that good is coming my way, but without creating an expectation of how that has to happen.

So...


Are you living in expectation?

Or are you living in expectancy?


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